tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post113937471184268022..comments2023-11-03T04:17:39.459-04:00Comments on The Truth About Cocks and Dolls: Viggo is a No-GoUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139489301865065622006-02-09T07:48:00.000-05:002006-02-09T07:48:00.000-05:00As a guy, I agree. I would much rather have a gir...As a guy, I agree. I would much rather have a girl tell me that its not going to work than have to wonder.Spyderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17858735704564489092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139414496810533182006-02-08T11:01:00.000-05:002006-02-08T11:01:00.000-05:00If you are fairly certain he was into you and plan...If you are fairly certain he was into you and plans to call you for another date --<BR/><BR/>I would head any future awkwardness off at the pass. Send a preemptive email saying you were glad you finally had a chance to hook up but that you just aren't a good match. No harm, no foul. <BR/><BR/>Don't hope that he'll "figure it out" -- guys rarely do. And if you talk to any of your male friends about "getting signals" I expect they'll tell you that they really need it spelled out. For some reason, guys are just like that. (And that's okay, as long as you know...) <BR/><BR/>Yeah, it's sort of a painful email to send, but being upfront about it all just keeps it neat and tidy. There's nothing to be ashamed of that it didn't work out; but now be a grown up and let him know so you can both move on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139412003409890422006-02-08T10:20:00.000-05:002006-02-08T10:20:00.000-05:00I'd do nothing for now, let it go to voicemail if ...I'd do nothing for now, let it go to voicemail if he calls, THEN e-mail with the gentle "You're nice, no spark, take care" e-mail.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06929841385341392093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139409034561342742006-02-08T09:30:00.000-05:002006-02-08T09:30:00.000-05:00Dare, you're probably right. I hate the uncertain...Dare, you're probably right. I hate the uncertainty myself and even though it can be a little painful to get that "I'm not into you" email, it's better than wondering.<BR/><BR/>Anonymous, it wasn't 90 minutes, it was barely an hour. Bear in mind this is someone I met in person before and also talked to on the phone. Plus, he was a nice guy and I wanted to give him a fair chance. Calling it a night after 15 minutes would have been rude.Dollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01234333432020422776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139380858426392662006-02-08T01:40:00.000-05:002006-02-08T01:40:00.000-05:00I need to make a blogger username.But, really, how...I need to make a blogger username.<BR/><BR/>But, really, how do you even get into these situations? I've never had a first date that I didn't like last that long. A first date should be something quick enough to plausibly end within 15 minutes. Enough to decide whether you want to see the person anymore or not (more then, or more later, or not at all). 90 minutes of awkwardness? Not for me I guess.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com