tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post113959263419493496..comments2023-11-03T04:17:39.459-04:00Comments on The Truth About Cocks and Dolls: Arty AdamUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1141240489262703292006-03-01T14:14:00.000-05:002006-03-01T14:14:00.000-05:00What are your three kinds of favorite colognes? A...What are your three kinds of favorite colognes? Also, ever have a guy with hydraulic problems?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139861007420150822006-02-13T15:03:00.000-05:002006-02-13T15:03:00.000-05:00Bigsend,No harm done. I also don't want it to see...Bigsend,<BR/>No harm done. I also don't want it to seem like I withhold sex for power. If I hold back, it's because I want to make sure I can handle the emotional aspects as well as the physical. With a one night stand, there are no emotional issues, so it's easier to have sex under those circumstances.Dollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01234333432020422776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139851263315282352006-02-13T12:21:00.000-05:002006-02-13T12:21:00.000-05:00Yeah didn't mean to be rude in the last post. Just...Yeah didn't mean to be rude in the last post. Just me reflecting off of some experimences in the past.BigSendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139763321655226802006-02-12T11:55:00.000-05:002006-02-12T11:55:00.000-05:00Rebel,My email's on my profile.Larissa,My problem ...Rebel,<BR/>My email's on my profile.<BR/><BR/>Larissa,<BR/>My problem is that I feel it's right too early on! Good think Adam is away for a week, which will slow the pace down a bit.Dollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01234333432020422776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139708074739247772006-02-11T20:34:00.000-05:002006-02-11T20:34:00.000-05:00Its on then next time im in NYC! My ex back in Oak...Its on then next time im in NYC! My ex back in Oakland California was great as a pivot. She also was totally into the PUA community. Miss her. Anyway, probably in the next few months I'll be in town. How do I find your email in this joint?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139695767623662332006-02-11T17:09:00.000-05:002006-02-11T17:09:00.000-05:00Rebel,I agree with you on more than one point. Se...Rebel,<BR/><BR/>I agree with you on more than one point. Sex is so much better when you really get to know the other person and their body (and maybe even develop feelings for them). This is why I'm trying to cool it with the casual sex; it's not as satisfying with a one night stand or FB. I also have a tendency to get emotionally attached (I know, I'm such a girl).<BR/><BR/>I can see how the seven hour rule would hold true, though. My date with Computer Dave lasted seven hours to the minute before I brought him home with me. I was very tempted to ask Adam over at the end of our marathon nine-hour date, too (thank god I was too tired). I have a tendency to have dates that run really long, so it can be tough to restrain myself after two or three (if that many) dates. After not hearing from CDave, who I thought was a Potential, I'm starting to finally learn my lesson.<BR/><BR/>I'd love to go sarging with you next time you're in town! Send me an email whenever you decide to visit NYC.Dollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01234333432020422776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139691392857459182006-02-11T15:56:00.000-05:002006-02-11T15:56:00.000-05:00Hi Dolly. I'm jealous that you and Affection get t...Hi Dolly. I'm jealous that you and Affection get to sarge New York. That's where I grew up and my dad still lives in brooklyn, so I go there a few times a year but that's not enough. I love that town. I'm a big fan of Lower East Side.<BR/><BR/>The "seven hour rule" is textbook Mystery Method. I'm a student of MM -- as is Affection by the way.<BR/><BR/>The idea is that while males and females both love sex, men have a biological imperative to spread their DNA far and wide with little regret, and woman have a biological imperative to select a man who will stick around through pregnancy and infancy of any child that may result from sexual liaisons.<BR/><BR/>Many guys can occasionally or regularly spike girls' attraction, or the girl just has her own attraction spiked cuz she's horny, so she overlooks her biological need to trust the guy she's fucking, for the thrill of the fuck itself. But afterwards she will often feel terrible about her decision, which for most of our existence as a species may well have been a life-threatening mistake. So, while we live in this day of birth control and other means of preventing unwanted pregnancy, its still hardwired in your DNA.<BR/><BR/>She will then feel uncomfortable and guilty about going at it with a guy she doesn't really know or trust. That discomfort and mistrust will be projected on the guy, even though at the time she was hot for him. It's called buyer's remorse. (In fact, your BLOG recounts examples of buyer's remorse and codifies this theory.)<BR/><BR/>For a PUA, engaging in that behavior is called "fool's mate." It can be fun at the time, but if you want to see her again, bad move.<BR/><BR/>Personally if I'm interested enough in a girl to want to fuck her once, I'll want to fuck her more than once. I also know that sex gets better the longer you get to have it with someone, so I need more than one shot to really show a woman what I’ve got, and find out what she's got. So even if I've done a good job spiking attraction to the point that she's ready for the F-Close from a sarge, I'll (try to) hold back for a solid 7-hour period. Personally, I have ALWAYS regretted moving too fast.<BR/><BR/>Fortunately, its seven hours of contact, not x-number of dates (10 dates before the full monty!? puhleeze....) So one hour of meeting and a 6-hour day 2 at a museum or something like that would cover it. Or a 30-mintes sarge to #-close, a 2-3 hour date and a few good phone calls in between, by day 3 you should be in the nasty.<BR/><BR/>My current main target is a woman whose been in exclusive girl-girl relationship since high school, so I’m even moving slower than that with her. She’s so hot!<BR/><BR/>Again this is Mystery Method. I strongly encourage guys who want to learn a ton of stuff that will help them enjoy their sex and social life more, to consider investing in a bootcamp, or buy his e-book.<BR/><BR/>Maybe we can sarge together next time I’m in the Big Apple.<BR/><BR/>Love, Rebel LeaderAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139678982802708122006-02-11T12:29:00.000-05:002006-02-11T12:29:00.000-05:00Kitty,I'm glad you're enjoying the blog. You know...Kitty,<BR/>I'm glad you're enjoying the blog. You know even if I fall off the radar, I still read yours, right? I miss you, too.<BR/><BR/>Bigsend,<BR/>I had a situation where a guy withheld sex. We ended up developing a more serious relationship, were together for eight months, and are still friends. If you look at my track record since beginning this blog, I don't have a lot of second dates. Remember that great one with Computer Dave? (http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=20530625&postID=113855602465200551) Slept with him on the first date, never saw him again. Don't want a repeat of that situation.<BR/><BR/>Rebel leader,<BR/>Thanks for backing me up. I'm curious as to what amount of time you think it's sensible to wait before having sex, if there's hopes for a relationship. It always seems much longer than I have the patience for (last answer I got was ten dates, which I think would kill me).<BR/><BR/>Spitkicker,<BR/>Cool blog, I added you to my links.<BR/><BR/>ijjjji,<BR/>Believe me, I know how unsexy it is being neurotic in front of a man, so I save the analizing for the blog and my friends. When I'm out, I'm out to have a great time. As for liberating my inner slut, if you read the rest of the blog, you'll see that I'm doing pretty well for myself. I'm not into having orgies or threesomes or tons of FB's. I just want to have as much fun as humanly possible, kiss hot guys and, if I'm lucky, have the LTR thing eventually happen. Though I'm having such a blast right now, it might be tougher than I expected to settle down...<BR/>Thanks for the link!Dollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01234333432020422776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139671722846328492006-02-11T10:28:00.000-05:002006-02-11T10:28:00.000-05:00Cool you like :)You are funny :)Liberate your inne...Cool you like :)<BR/><BR/>You are funny :)<BR/><BR/>Liberate your inner slut, and guys will start swarming you like flies on fresh excrements!<BR/><BR/>(Analytical attitude is soooo unsexy!! Stop that!!)<BR/><BR/>I link you too :)<BR/><BR/>Best of luck!ijjjjihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06888939530956313871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139649826628317292006-02-11T04:23:00.000-05:002006-02-11T04:23:00.000-05:00I love the blog. just found it today. I'm over at ...I love the blog. just found it today. I'm over at http://becomingapua.blogspot.com . take a look :)Knoweldge One (Formerly Spitkicker)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15430257059494625893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139640838955980002006-02-11T01:53:00.000-05:002006-02-11T01:53:00.000-05:00bigsend, chill.I'm a fellow student of the game. I...bigsend, chill.<BR/><BR/>I'm a fellow student of the game. In most cases, you should wait 7 hours or so of solid attraction and courtship before getting in to sex. A few dates and phone calls -- about a month or so -- adds up to 7 hours. Otherwise it generally ends up being a one time thing. Dolly is exercising discipline because she likes the guy and knows that taking things slow generally makes it work out for the better in the long run.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139634213834119882006-02-11T00:03:00.000-05:002006-02-11T00:03:00.000-05:00What would you do if it were the guy who was withh...What would you do if it were the guy who was withholding sex from you? I mean you mentioned at the end of the blog you are going to make this guy wait a month. <BR/><BR/>Whats the reasoning behind that? If you wait a month will that make it so you guys will begin a happy relationship? Is it that love can't be based on sex soon after the first meeting? Isn't that what Oxytocin is for?<BR/><BR/>Right now I'm a virgin, so I guess that makes me idealistic. I'm also a pick up artist (learning). I hope my women want sex from me not as a power thing that they can withhold, but as a way to experience love. At least I hope it turns out like that.BigSendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01698336342127630383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-1139622744119423142006-02-10T20:52:00.000-05:002006-02-10T20:52:00.000-05:00Very happy for you Doll. :)And I just want to tel...Very happy for you Doll. :)<BR/><BR/>And I just want to tell you how much fun I am having living vicariously through you. I check this blog, like, twice a day. You should be a columnist, dah-ling. You rock.<BR/><BR/>Miss you...<BR/><BR/>Pretty KittyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com