tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post5792423425705139377..comments2023-11-03T04:17:39.459-04:00Comments on The Truth About Cocks and Dolls: tentative at bestUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-14619826751602303682011-03-23T22:44:02.006-04:002011-03-23T22:44:02.006-04:00Interesting hearing about this coming from the oth...Interesting hearing about this coming from the other direction, Dolly. Although weekends in bed are really not something I'd ever be willing to give up, I don't think.<br /><br />There are advantages to spontaneous and total control over my own time that I've enjoyed. Though, I have to say that none of them make up for stable, happy relationship, in the bigger picture, for me, at least. But it's nice to get a sense of yourself with all that, in the meantime.<br /><br />I suppose the answer, at some level, is to be happy no matter where you're at. The opposite gets wearisome, is the truth. Whatever the endeavor.Ben Sutherlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14193389264010365448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-37882270423750070452010-01-04T14:45:35.243-05:002010-01-04T14:45:35.243-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.shanerobert007https://www.blogger.com/profile/17141829776517700166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-79721509519928024962008-10-11T10:53:00.000-04:002008-10-11T10:53:00.000-04:00Krayon,I think in order to have a rich identity it...Krayon,<BR/><BR/>I think in order to have a rich identity it's necessary to continue evolving as a person. One reason individuality might get stifled in a relationship is because there's often a tendency to fall into routines and stop growing (separately and as a couple). I can't help but be optimistic that there is a way to have both, it's just a matter of choosing someone on a similar trajectory, though that isn't easy. How can you insure that you will grow together and not apart? It's something I haven't had good luck with up to this point, though I still have faith it's possible.Dollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01234333432020422776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-15074625251254814502008-10-11T08:23:00.000-04:002008-10-11T08:23:00.000-04:00Pretty cool stuff you have going here. There's a w...Pretty cool stuff you have going here. There's a wealth of stories to go through, and I've only skimmed the surface, and I'm already enthralled.<BR/><BR/>I can completely understand where you are coming from. I always ask myself the question, 'Why, just because you're in a relationship, your individuality, and independence gets buried by the relationship?'<BR/><BR/>And I realise, can you really have a successful relationship, while maintaining your individuality? Things are pointing to no.Krayonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01201628180571239835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-86557727085782022022008-10-08T22:22:00.000-04:002008-10-08T22:22:00.000-04:00Dave,Yeah, my female friends tell me that I have m...Dave,<BR/><BR/>Yeah, my female friends tell me that I have more of a guy perspective on relationships these days.<BR/><BR/>Me,<BR/><BR/>Good idea about dating someone with family outside the state. Though that can also mean using vacation time to see them. <BR/><BR/>As for the day in bed thing, I've experienced it before, just not in a really really long time. I'm overdue.Dollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01234333432020422776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-26010201446897063012008-10-08T04:06:00.000-04:002008-10-08T04:06:00.000-04:00Family get togethers: I can understand what you we...Family get togethers: I can understand what you went through, which is why I prefer to date women who do not have family in the same city as them. Some people like the simple life!<BR/><BR/>As for spending the whole day in bed: marvellous. I was 34 when I first experienced that and it is so lovely I'll never get serious with any woman who does not want them. Of course not wanting children has a lot to do with that.Manniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04119332802138490071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20530625.post-11469729839176198462008-10-06T14:56:00.000-04:002008-10-06T14:56:00.000-04:00Very cool - but you should know you're the excepti...Very cool - but you should know you're the exception rather than the rule in my experience. Most women easily get wrapped up in a relationship and lose their own identity.Davehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17616567117780295896noreply@blogger.com